What They Did
The researchers carried out two studies of the connections
among adolescent relationship quality with parents, friends, and romantic partners:
one study included adolescents aged 12 to 16, and the other included adolescents
aged 15 to 22. In both cases, the studies were longitudinal, with questions about
parent relationships the first year, about friendship the second year, and about
romantic relationships the third year. Only responses of participants who were
in romantic relationships the third year were included in the analysis.
For the younger adolescents,
the researchers found that the quality of the relationship with one parent was correlated
with the relationship quality for the other parent. They also found that participants
who reported a good relationship with a friend in the second year of the study
were likely to also report a good relationship with a romantic partner in the
third year. (Relationship quality with parents did not predict later relationship
quality with friends or romantic partners.) For the older adolescents, relationship
quality was correlated over all four relationship pairs: participants who reported
that one relationship was good were more likely to report positively on each of
the other relationship types in future years.
The researchers speculate that the correlations between parental
relationship quality and friendship or romantic relationship quality may be stronger
in older adolescents because those relationships are likely to be closer and
more committed than those of younger adolescents. It may be only in those more “serious”
relationships that the parental relationships function as models for
adolescents.
Further Exploration
The studies have some limitations, which the researchers
discuss transparently. One element that caught my eye, however, and was not
addressed in the article was how the parental relationship scale worked for adolescents
with two same-gender parents. My best guess is that they answered the questions
based on their relationship with the biological parent of the relevant gender,
but I really don’t know.
The two groups also had different scales used to assess relationship
quality. The younger group completed the surveys at school, while the older
group did so at home. The older adolescents also received money for
participating. The younger adolescents, meanwhile, completed the surveys during
the school day, replacing their regular class.
Those differences may have affected the responses. The older
adolescents may have appreciated being paid and therefore been happier, leading
them to rate their relationships more highly. The younger ones may or may not
have enjoyed having the survey activity replace their regular class, and this
could also have an effect. The older group may have been more comfortable at
home, leading to higher ratings, or they could have been uncomfortable having a
stranger in their home, which may have caused lower ratings. It’s also
conceivable that the younger adolescents at school were more primed to think
about their friendships and romantic relationships and the older ones at home
were more primed to think about their parental relationships. One could potentially
design a study to examine these possibilities, but that’s a rabbit hole for
another day!
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